7 Types Of Friends You Need To Reject From Your Life

7 Types Of Friends You Need To Reject From Your Life

FEB. 16, 2014 By LENNA SON

1. People who are inconsistent in the way they treat you.

One day, they will treat you like you’re their soul mate and another day they treat you like you are an invisible person and they do not tell you why.

2. People who treat you differently from how they treat their other friends.

When they see you, they greet you without a smile, they aren’t so eager to start a conversation with you, and basically treat you they have no time for you. But when they see their other friends, they become completely different and become the friendliest person ever.

3. People who do not know how to be thankful.

You do something for nice to them and they do not thank you for it. They treat it as if you have done something that you would have obviously done and do not appreciate your generosity.

4. People who do not give back.

People who do not know how to be thankful usually do not give back either. You remember their birthdays and get them gifts, but when it’s your birthday, all you get is “oh it’s your birthday? Happy Birthday.”

5. People who make you feel like you need to impress them.

If you do feel like you need to constantly impress your friends when you hang out with them, they are not your true friends. They are making you feel like you are inferior to them and friends don’t do that.

6. People who only text/call you when they need something from you.

They contact you only when they need help. Their texts don’t even start with “hey! how are you?”; they go straight into asking you for things.

7. People who don’t invite you to their weekend activities.

Whether it is a party, a get-together, or just a dinner, they never invite you and you find out how much fun they had without you by seeing their photos on your Facebook newsfeed. 

"I am only one, but still I am one.
I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something I can do."  ~ Edward Everett Hale

Changes

It's been a while. A lot of things got altered in my life. People I removed and kept. I've been bewildered about fantasy for so long where I forgot that reality is really striking. Realization really is something that even the very basic principle of my existence got shaken. The way I see things now is far different who I used to be. I'm a different person now. I'm stronger, less sensitive and started to love the real me.

Tanggapin mo na lang

Mahalaga ang mga kaibigan ko para sakin, hindi ko man ito madalas nasasabi sa kanila, madalas man ako makipag gagohan. Hindi ko parin hahayaan mawala kahit isa sa kanila. Ang sama ng loob ay hindi na dapat itinatago kung may problema sabihin ito ng harapan ng mapagusapan, Wag tayong lumikha ng pader na magbubukod sa ating mga buhay. kaangatang kilay ng pagbati o kaangatang kamay ng pagkasalubong naging parte ka parin ng buhay na meron ako. Tropa tayo Kaibigan kita nasayo parin ang respeto at tiwala ko.. Masakit mawalan ng isang kaibigan. ------RogerRaker

This is the end.....

Ikaw na mismo nagsabi. Wag kang magalala I'm done na po. Kung hinayaan mo lang akong makausap ka ng maayos di na dapat hahantong sa ganito. Napakitid kasi ng utak mo. NAPAKAKITID. NABUBUHAY KA SA NAKARAAN. Di ka marunong magpahalaga sa mga taong nakapaligid sayo. Di na ako magugulat kung bakit masmalungkot ang buhay mo kesa sa akin. PI kasi napakabait ko kaya ginaganito ako ng mga mapagpanggap na frogs. Nakakairita to the MAX. Mapagbigay akong tao, mapangunawa at higit sa lahat mapagmahal, kaso basura lang pala kasi nga daw mukha akong tae at peste lang pala. Well, isa lang masasabi ko sau kung sino kaman, KARMAHIN KA SANA.....

Rediculed

I'm starting to feel this very negative feeling again which I really hate. Is it just me or them? I think I really need a change....

Message

True, you are better than them because you are real. No hiding or anything. You are just being yourself. Yes, people tends to dissapoint, so dont expect from them too much, however, just go with the flow and learn not to dwell on things that you cant change. At the end of the day its always you. Sincerely attached, yes you are, treating us like your own is motherly and thats what I like about you. It's not a mistake, its just how you show your love because you care. People come and go, thats a fact, anyhow, its how you treat people that they can remember you no matter how moody, pessimistic and agitated you are. Why setting aside everything and creating a wall? Will it make a difference? Just to avoid it? I may be too young, not so serious about my life but I treasure my friends and I started to really love myself. I might not be perfect but I jive because I set a limitation to myself that I cant go beyond. I created a layer to protect myself from harm. People judge me because they can only see the photoshoped pictures not the authentic copy. I might be so childish, dramatic, fool, stupid, nonsense, dumb and always talks about my baby, but one thing is for sure, What you see is what you get.

Few very important lessons I've learned in this journey are:

1. UNDERSTANDING - You may not know everything but atleast you tried to see things in a different perspective instead of focusing on the obvious.

2. RESPECT - people has different opinions. If you want to be respected, respect yourself first. Expecting too much falls to this category.

3. LOVE - its the greatest gift of our dearly God. It has different flavors : Love with your family, partner or material things. Its the fifth element that set aside humans from animals. Although sometimes, i get hurt because of that love, I step back and just enjoy the moment of being inloved. Its a feeling that can destroy you too, but in due time, the love that you are longing for will just arrive in an instant, you just need to be patient and be thankful of what you have for the moment.

4. DONT BE JEALOUS - whenever My love talks about "you know what I mean", my mood suddenly changes. Reality check, I dont have the right to get hurt, to be jealous or anything because in the first place, nothing really started.

5. FOCUS - you should know your priorities in life and know how to balance things. having said that, success will follow and assurance that you have a backup plan whenever the first plan didnt work out fine.

I have a lot of disappointments in my life but I'm trying my best to be as good as I can be. To cut the chase, Im still learning.